We are made for heartbreak just as we are made for love. Ahead of its upcoming Valentines Day release of Minus One: New Chapter, Lionsgate Play in partnership with Ormax Media has released an independent research study that takes a deep dive into ‘love, relationships and heartbreak’. The streaming platform’s Relationship Meter aims to decode the concept of relationships and heartbreak within Millennials and Gen Z in India. The upcoming show is the story of a relationship that spans different phases of life. Through two timelines, we will see a relationship develop between two people – the trials and tribulations go through the lens of young adult couple Varun (Aayush Mehra) and Rhea (Ayesha Ahmed). The app brings to the fore insights that connect with people navigating their dating journey today.
Live-in before commitment, the era of marriage is no more
As we are evolving, Gen Z and Millennials are riding a change in attitudes and are choosing alternative institutions like live-in relationships to build lasting relationships. 1 in 2 Indians agree that it is important to be in a live-in relationship before getting into a committed relationship to understand your partner better. Like Varun and Rhea in the show, 37% of Indians thought it okay to stay in the same house with their partner even after a breakup. The report states that 34% of Indians feel that their parents would be open to them being in a live-in relationship – this really shows how parenting is slowly evolving towards the concept .
Relationship expert and therapist Kavyal Sedani says, “Today, Gen Z and Millennials are changing their views on how they want their relationships to be. He has seen marriages that do not work due to infidelity, worldliness and other reasons – hence, he feels it is important to be in a live-in relationship before taking the plunge into a committed relationship; So that one can understand their partner in a better way. While this can be a great way to get to know the person you’re living with, it also comes with a risk because you always have one foot out the door. Hence, live-in relationships are comparatively easy when we are given the option to walk out and not commit when things get tough. Gen Z and Millennials today aren’t dependent on their partners for finances, social security, and love, so these methods may work for them.
Are we still in the ‘Pyaar Dosti Hai’ phase?
Most men (87%) and women (92%) feel Shahrukh Khan He was right when he said that love is friendship. They still believe that friendship is the secret ingredient to lasting love. But what about those couples who remain friends after breakup? In an era of red flags and keeping toxic situations at bay, 1 in 3 women is okay with being friends with their ex! The study highlights a break in the stereotype and reveals that only 30% of Indians are uncomfortable with their partner being a best friend of the opposite sex. In keeping with this view, the study also reveals that 60% of Indian men claim that they are not able to sustain a ‘bromance’ because of their partner’s needs.
“It’s absolutely true that friendship is an important component in any relationship, but sometimes if someone doesn’t have a proper relationship with their ex and they’re still hurting about their past, being friends with them can be more than beneficial.” can be more harmful. A lingering feeling of wanting them, a need for closure, or knowing the value in that relationship keeps adding more complications. It’s natural for people to feel uncomfortable if their partner is in contact with their ex’ or they are still best friends as they seem to have some unresolved feelings. However, it totally depends on what kind of relationship one shares with their partner and if they are mature or different enough to share their If you are able to dissect past lives then friendship can be a part of this equation”, says Sedani.
‘Silsila’ of Badalte Rishton
Silsila, the iconic blockbuster of the 1980s, would have been considered a role model if it had released today. In a bold revelation, the study states that 34% of Indians agree to engage in casual sex with other partners even if they are emotionally attached to someone else. Noted through this report – 38% of mini-metro residents prefer “friends with benefits” compared to metro residents. With new terms like situationalism, love bombing and more surfacing, singles and couples are open to experimenting with their relationship status beyond monogamy. The flip side of this is when Indians choose their partners – out of 2. 1 in 3 men and 1 in 3 women prioritize good looks over emotional connection.
With the changing perception about casual sex, Sedany says, “Gen Z clearly has options today and to each their own, of course, but it can also create a lot of insecurity among those who want to have sex.” who are weak and have low self-esteem anyway. Casual sex can sometimes stop them from giving their 100% in any relationship. That being said, if people are spoiled for choice, It’s only natural that they would explore them.”
love is not blind anymore
Apart from Dil Ki Baat, Indians want to fill their pockets before asking for the most expensive emotion. As per the report, 72% Indians agree that one should get into a relationship only when they are financially secure. Changing the age-old narrative, 1 in 2 Indian women believes in equal sharing of expenses between a couple. However, only 37% of Indian men share the same sentiment on this joint venture. While Indians have changed the ‘selection process’, they have found ways to improve the selection – 1 in 2 people are on dating apps in the hope of finding the love of their life.
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Sedani adds, “They say love is blind but it was never really like that. It’s just that we were too quick to call our dependence love. We were conditioned to believe that we should say I love you as soon as we find an arranged marriage match, and the first time we put on an engagement ring. Love is a feeling that develops with time and people have understood that it is important to be financially independent. No one wants to be stranded in case of hardship or because they are financially dependent on someone. Needing someone and being in a relationship with him is a need-based relationship, love is when you don’t need that person but still want to be with him. However, when a person learns to make their own money they also gain a lot of respect and self-esteem in themselves and they have a tendency to choose a better partner when they feel they are good enough.
This is the matter of heart Babu bhai
As much as we would like to believe that unlike Devdas we have evolved and put on a stronger footing, 3 out of 5 Indians (60%) believe that heartbreak results in being alone and not being loved again It happens because of the fear of. Another important aspect is the concept of ending is easier than fixing, where 72% of 33 to 38 year olds and 67% of 27 to 32 year old Indians agree that breaking up is easier than fixing a relationship. Also, 48% of Indians consider it best to start a new relationship before moving on to find the best option. Women are taking a practical approach, while men seem to be sentimental Romeos. 53% of women have a ‘get over your ex, move on to the next’ attitude. But 66% of men are ready to go back to their first love.
Talking about the breakup, Sedani says, “Relationships teach us important lessons in life. On average, they say that every person goes through at least three relationships, which means they’ll eventually have to deal with two breakups. Everyone has to go through heartbreak, betrayal and many more but we have to learn to face them and not run away from them.
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