India, which is known for its diverse traditions and customs, is home to various interesting practices that extend beyond individual communities. These practices have a peculiar rule observed in a particular place, where living together before marriage is not just an option but a necessity. The place is inhabited by tribal communities who reject orthodox norms and find it unthinkable to go ahead with marriage without experiencing a period of cohabitation.
The Muria or Muriya Tribe in Bastar, Chhattisgarh
According to media reports, this unique practice is found among a group of people known as Muria or Muria tribe in the Bastar region of Chhattisgarh. This rule has deep cultural and traditional roots within their community. In observance of this rule, a boy and a girl are expected to live together before marriage in order to truly understand and know each other. In particular, their families and societies provide support throughout this process. To facilitate their cohabitation, a temporary house called “Ghotul” is constructed near their main residences.
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Residence in Ghotul: Period of Cohabitation
The couple stays together in Ghotul for a few days. Ghotul made of bamboo and thatch resembles a large courtyard. Locally it is often made using bamboo and clay. This unique practice is prevalent not only in Bastar but also in various regions of Chhattisgarh where the Muria tribe is found. In some areas they are also called “Madia” tribe. During their time at Ghotul, young men and women try to understand each other better and spend quality time together.
Choosing a life partner: Chelik and Motiyari
After spending a considerable amount of time in Ghotul, the boys and girls involved in this tradition proceed to choose their life partner. The boys who come to Ghotul are called “Chelik”, while the girls are called “Motiyari”. This rule is strictly followed in the Muria tribe even in contemporary times. Community members encourage each other to honor and preserve this unique tradition. Although this marriage rule may seem strange to outsiders, it is the reality and essence of their cultural practices.