Generally, when our heart is broken by a cheating partner, we bleed emotionally and when someone asks, we tell them that we have been cheated on by ABC. However, Sadhguru questions why should we say something like that? We should actually be thanking the person!
“This is an opportunity for you as somebody is opening up a spiritual dimension for you. Somebody is making you realize how fragile all these things are. They can cheat on you, they can run away, they can divorce you or they can fall dead. The important thing is you were denied something,” he said.
“How he/she did it is not the problem. You can be denied only because you are in a certain illusory state of believing that this is half a life and it needs another half from somewhere no this is a complete life. If your blossom is a complete life you will see that relationships will be of a completely different nature. Stop using these words that somebody cheated on me, just say that somebody is pushing you towards ultimate reality from an illusory state. We must thank that person,” Sadhguru added.
Besides facing it with optimism as suggested by Sadhguru, it is also important that we accept the issue. There are reasons why he/she decided to cheat on you. It is always a two way flow in a relationship. Did you take your partner for granted? Did you let him/her take you for granted? Acceptance is the key and so is being honest to ourselves. If you are still facing difficulty in getting over a cheating partner, we would always suggest going to a therapist because mental health should always be your priority.
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