Parents’ dilemma when educating children about sex

Today’s parents are becoming more aware and open to actively educating their growing children about ‘sexuality’. However, they often face dilemmas such as – “How and when should we educate children about sex? How much do we call children? If we say too much – too quickly, will it harm them mentally? Will it indirectly encourage them to experiment and become sexually active?”

A modern parent is quite convinced that it is essential to make children feel comfortable about their sexuality from the very beginning. This prepares them and makes it easier for them to ask any further questions about sex for the rest of their lives, without any inhibitions.

As children grow up, parents and teachers can further educate them by providing them with age-appropriate yet accurate information, so that they can make healthy and responsible decisions about their sexuality.

Often parents are concerned that telling children too early could harm them, or encourage them to be sexually active earlier in their lives.

It is essential to know that education and information will not encourage children to become sexually active prematurely. On the contrary, it helps them make better decisions about sex, when they can ask and talk at home and when they have all the knowledge they need. This helps them to be better equipped to protect themselves from sexual abuse, molestation, incest, STDs and even unwanted pregnancies.

There is information that is more appropriate for children of particular ages. For example, a 5-year-old must know the correct name for his body parts, including the sex organs and that his genitals are a ‘private’ part that should never be touched by anyone. Such training at an early age goes a long way in preventing sexual abuse, which is very common in today’s society.

It’s not necessary to have a huge discussion with kids every time they ask a sexual question. First of all it is very important to listen carefully to them. They may only need an answer to one question right now and that is perfectly fine. Always make sure you are answering the question accurately instead of talking in general terms. If you’re not sure what your child is asking, it’s good to politely clarify. Make sure they know they are always welcome to ask follow-up questions.

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