47 years old Kajol and mother of two wonderful kids, Nyasa and Yug have always been vocal and honest about the different parenting rules and the principles she believes in. While she and her sister, Tanisha have spoken about their upbringing in the past as well. A home of strong women, Kajol also believes that for her, both her children Nyasa and Yug are equal, and before they step into the world, it is important that they learn the right lessons about gender roles.
Speaking about the same in an earlier interview, Kajol went on record to say that she would never teach her daughter that there are some manly things she cannot do, or teach Yug that certain things only women should do. Promoting that children follow the principles which they observe and are taught at home, the famous actress said that equality really starts at home.
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An old interview taken around the release of her women-empowerment film, Devi is now rocking the internet. Here is an excerpt:
“Agar aap apne bete ko sikha rahe ho ki “badhe hokar tumhe job karna hai, tumhe kamayi karni hai, tumhe apne zindagi ka kuchh karna hai, ” khaana pakaana sikha rahe ho, toh aap apne bete ko kyun nahi sikha rahe ho khana pakaana? hi.”
The actress, who has two children with husband Ajay Devgn, also stressed that it is important that children are not limited by their gender, and grow up to be healthy individuals and have their own definition of who an ideal person is.
It is really refreshing to see a popular personality like Kajol expressing such candid views in the open, and inspiring other parents to make a difference. While the world around us is constantly changing, it is now more important than ever to raise children who are friendly, not restrictive, and not limiting themselves.
How do you raise similar children at home?
-If you want to set good examples for your kids, don’t assign roles based on gender
-Use gender-neutral words when talking
As a parent, make sure all your children stay the same
A boy or a girl gets equal opportunities, and their voice is heard.
-When you delegate tasks and responsibilities to them, try and let them do similar things
-Respect your child’s feelings, and don’t dismiss them
-Let them question things, and challenge stereotypes
-Work as a team, and set the right example yourself
Let go of the stereotypical mindset, don’t limit what a girl or boy can do.
– Communicate openly and frequently with your children
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